Thursday, August 30, 2007

My Insanity--Gourmet Group Edition

Barry and I have a saying about any project I get involved in that requires creativity. We call it my insanity. I used that term to explain to him once that although there were much easier gifts to give our neighbors at Christmas than the home made star cookie Christmas trees (which required about 25 cookies a piece) that my artistic vision was involved and I was going to complete the project, even at the risk of my sanity. (In other words, "back off, and try and support my crazy ideas, because they are part of what makes me, me.") Why is it that things are always so much simpler in my head than in reality?

Anyway, when I joined the gourmet group, I realized that this is a group of women just like me (except that most of them are better cooks than I am). Women who care that there is a centerpiece and notice what it looks like. Women who work their tails off to create a gorgeous and delicious meal that will be devoured in a couple of hours and all that will be left to show for it are the pictures. And still take pleasure in the creative process and in doing something out of the ordinary.

August was my turn, along with my friend (and really good cook), Kim. The difficulties included the fact that I am pregnant and tired, and have a Trenton all day, and that Kim has two very young boys, a young business, and had the gall to move to the other side of the valley in January. Planning was a challenge. Every event we have gone to all year has been beautifully done with delicious food, so slacking wasn't really an option.

We eventually settled on a Northwestern theme--I have never set foot in the Northwest, but Kim just returned from a trip to Washington state and has relatives there that could help in determining appropriate cuisine and decor. She was mainly incharge of the menu (I helped cook) and I was mainly incharge of the decor, etc. I made the invitations above, with real ferns behind the vellum (I have blotted out personal info to keep Barry happy so I don't have to shut down my blog.)

My big frustration was that my vision was an outdoor meal. And we did everything possible to make that happen in Phoenix in August. We scheduled the meal for 7:00 in the evening, bought misters and installed them around our patio and had fans to blow it all around. Alas, since we were in the process of breaking our record of days over 110 degrees, all of our efforts just didn't seem to be enough. So at about 6:30pm we abandoned the plants, fountain, and all of the white Japanese lanterns we used at our wedding 8 years ago. And moved the tables indoors. I admit, my head was throbbing so badly at this point, that I left Barry and Kim to try and come up with some way to fit two long tables in our small living room. It wasn't pretty, but the couch ended up in the kitchen (almost) with just one walk way in and out. Ofcourse, this put us behind on cooking, but despite my disappointment (which always comes from unfulfilled vision), I believe the meal was a success.


Everyone enjoying appetizers and our place settings. Kim made the rock napkin holders/ bracelets for our guests to take home (They also got to keep their rocks that I painted. :-)).

Our Menu:
Blueberry Italian Soda
Crab Stuffed Mushroom Caps
Smoked Salmon and Pesto Appetizer Cheesecake

Crab bisque

Northwest Stuffed Salmon
Squash and Couscous Risotto
Berry Poppy Salad with Poppy Seed Ginger Vinaigrette

Iced Chocolate Chaud (French hot chocolate, served iced)
Blueberry Frozen Yogurt



Our group enjoying dessert.

He's a Rocket Man

Lately Trenton has been obsessed with all things to do with space and astronauts. He decided these swords (which his dad made from pool noodles and pvc pipe) looked like jet packs and asked me to help him stick them up his back so he could blast off into outer space. I'm not sure he made it more than a couple of inches off the ground, but it is fun to watch his very active imagination developing!
Ready for Blast off!

But Mommy, I don't need a nap...

Sure you don't, Trenton. Why is it when I am feeling that I desperately need an afternoon nap each day, Trenton is so determined not to take one? Of course, he usually ends up crashing somewhere around 5:00pm, messing up evening and bedtime schedules. Why do they think naps are bad things, when I think naps are perfectly wonderful?

Friday, August 17, 2007

Kira in the morning

There is something I love about this picture of Kira. I think it is the morning light. Of course, she is in her jammies and hasn't brushed her hair, so I probably wouldn't hang it on the wall. But I guess sometimes it's good to see your kids in a "different light".

Grandma and Elmo




Still catching up on fun photos from the summer. These were from when Barry's mom came to help us get ready to sell our house. She took on perhaps the most daunting task, which was going through the kids room with them and putting clothes/toys in storage, cleaning, etc. Anyway, she did a fabulous job with many fewer tears than there would have been if I had done it. She had given Trenton this Elmo shirt and wore her own for the fun factor, so we had to get some pictures. THANKS GRANDMA!

Friday, August 10, 2007

School Girl!


Kira started 1st Grade on Monday and here are some pictures from her first day of school. So far we have gotten mixed reviews from her about her first week, but that isn't surprising from Kira. I must say it is a little more calm and quiet around here during the day with out her.

All your beautiful hair...

Before and after


I am in mourning just a little today at the loss of Trenton's long locks. For the last several months I have been in love with Trentons "surfer boy" shaggy hair. Barry has been less so, and admittedly, lately it's been a little bit out of control. He needed some kind of haircut, and it seems like it grows fast, so when Barry proposed that he take care of it while I was at choir last night, I gave him the green light. When Trenton found us in bed this morning, I was not sure who's child I was looking at. He looks so different to me! When I put a little product in it, it didn't look too bad (I am finding some spots I will have to go back and clean up a bit), but I must admit, I am missing the long hair.
I guess while they were cutting the hair, Kira kept telling Trenton that all of his beautiful hair was gone. So that is what he told me this morning. But when we asked him what he thought of his haircut, he said "great!" I guess if he is happy, I shouldn't complain.

Arizona Sky







I have a lot I'd like to catch up on from the summer, but there are some more recent photos I want to share. We have had some nice monsoons here this year, and one of the Arizona's true beauties is amazing sunsets. These pictures were taken after a recent storm. Too bad we have too many neighbors and couldn't see the whole thing.

Sunday, August 05, 2007

The Anniversary Waltz (or should I say tango?)

Today is our 8th wedding anniversary. 8 years ago today, Barry and I were married for time and all eternity in the Mesa Arizona Temple. That is starting to sound like a long time. It wouldn't seem like so long, but our 2 1/2 children are good reminders that the time has really passed. Because of all that is going on, we kept things pretty simple this year. Barry's sisters were kind enough to have the kids over for a slumber party so we could have a night to ourselves on Friday. We went to dinner and mainly spent a lot of time talking about all of the stuff we haven't had time to talk about during the week. It was nice to sleep in Sat. morning a little, instead of being awakened at 6:00am by Trenton's announcement "I'm awake, I'm awake!" or "The pees are coming!" THANK YOU MIKELLE, BOBBY, & KRISTIN!

But ours is clearly not the only anniversary this time of year! My beautiful parents have now been married 45 years as of Aug. 2!
And yesterday, my sister, Trina and her husband, Guy celebrated 13 years of marriage! (Happy Anniversary, you guys!)
I wish I had everyone's wedding pictures!
Last night we went to an anniversary celebration for Frank & Kristy Nelson--Good family friends who have been married for 30 years! I wish I could have seen that wedding picture with the powder blue tuxedo!
Anyway, Happy Anniversary to everyone out there who is making it work year after year. In tribute to our marriage here is a look back at our romance through the years.
WARNING: Schmaltzy pictures to follow. Jared and others who are strongly opposed to PDA, should not press play. View at your own risk!