I have been wanting to do this post for a while as I have been trying to focus on gratitude all month long, and I have a lot to be grateful for this Thanksgiving--particularly special people! So this post is about some of the people who have sacrificed to help us lately and for whom we are extremely grateful!
SHANDA
I can't believe that Shanda stayed with us for 2 1/2 weeks and this is the best picture I have of her. Anyway, I am so glad that Shanda and Talia could come for Tessa's birth. Shanda was a huge support in so many ways! She helped keep me from going insane as I waited for Tessa's arrival, took over disciplining Trenton when I no longer had the strength, kept my children happy and entertained during Fall Break, took care of the kids (including getting them ready for the Halloween party)while we were at the hospital, coached and encouraged me through my early labor, was my cheerleader through it all, paid attention to my emotional and physical needs (pre and post-labor), and much more! I think everyone should have a sister around during childbirth times.
MY PARENTS
This is my Mom with Kira and "Pepperoni Pam Pizza." My parents got to town right before we got home from the hospital. My mom spoiled me with breakfast in bed each morning, took over all of the dishwashing and meal prep, did a ton of mending, and helped me (really did most of the work) make my Christmas presents for the children (can't post pics until after Christmas), entertained my children, and much more!
My Dad took care of several things on my "honey-do" list, drove me to the Pediatricians office, and ran other errands. He helped Barry take down a tree in our front yard, and much more!
HALTERMANS

My mother-in-law took a few days and came down to be with us. Here she and Mikelle are bathing Tessa. Mikelle provided dinner for all of us.
While Becky was staying with us, they helped the kids carve pumpkins and helped entertain the kids. Amber has the energy to wrestle Trenton, which he loves!



Besides, helping us at our house, my mother-in-law took Trenton back to Prescott for the week, which was a huge deal for me. Lots of credit has to be given to my father-in-law, who had charge of Trenton for several evenings, while Becky put on a play for her Relief Society.

He had a great time in Prescott! When they brought him back from Prescott, they all (Mikelle and Amber, too) helped clean the house (you know, scrub bathrooms and yucky stuff like that!) and Amber brought a twin bed for us, so Kira could finally get out of her toddler bed.
WARD FAMILYI'm almost embarrassed to list all of the people from the ward that brought us food, knowing that in a lot of wards, people are lucky to get a meal or two. We have a really supportive ward and although everyone is in a difficult situation (pregnant, recently had a baby, or something similar), they are all still willing to help out however they can!
So I am grateful to the following for bringing food (and several also brought gifts) and taking such good care of us:
Lunts
Hickenloopers
Horrocks
Rockwoods
Glazebrooks
Gilberts
Broyles
Smiths
Porters
...and tonight, if Barry ever makes it home, we are supposed to have dinner from "The Claim Jumper" courtesy of Clear Creek Associates, where he works!
TRINA
My sister, Trina, came to town for a reunion with High School friends, not expressly to help me, but in the day she was here, she managed to help me sort through maternity clothes, fix a yummy Sunday dinner, and give me some much needed sister bonding time!
So writing this all out is kind of overwhelming and makes me feel incredibly guilty about any complaining I may do. How do people ever do this with out family or the church?
Thank you, everyone!